Deep Longing
I was reading in Genesis this evening and came across a verse
that immediately brought a painful memory to heart and mind. My father was
looking for a church that would welcome him. He had been excommunicated along
with others who held to the same belief; i.e. that God would eventually reconcile
every thing to Himself by redeeming everyone. I do not know everything that
went on – this happened in the late 1950’s and early ‘60’s. I was just a child.
But I always followed theological discussions at home and at church with great
interest. How I remember the passion with which my father would talk of the
Lord’s return at the supper table when we had family devotions.
Even as a ten year old child, to some degree I understood
the issue of redemption; the necessity of the atonement and the need to be born
again. I think my father understood the implications of the belief of universalism
on my future life, and so he would tell us as children that we would have to
decide for ourselves once we were mature enough to understand the issues. He
had become a moderate universalist.
He had such a heart of compassion and could never reconcile
the love of God with the existence of souls in an everlasting lake of fire.
While I understand the motivation behind the doctrine, I do not agree with it
but that is beside the point.
My father badly wanted a loving church he could call his
family; his home. One Sunday he visited another of our denomination’s German churches.
He approached the church and started climbing the stairs, and a group of men
who recognized him called out and said “Herman, what are you doing here?” (They
knew about him and his home church)
Without skipping a beat, he answered, “I am seeking my
brothers”.
My father often spoke cryptically. These men did not
recognize that he was quoting from Joseph’s response to a stranger who found
him wandering the fields (Gen 37:16), looking for the brothers who would betray
him and sell him as a slave. I know
little of what happened after that exchange except that the men thought he was
kind of weird.
I do know that after a few years, those same churches received
the others who had been excommunicated back into fellowship. My Father had
moved out of the province in the meantime and to my knowledge was never able to
make peace with the church that disfellowshipped him.
"I am seeking my brothers." I often think of that verse when I have a deep longing to
connect more deeply with my brothers. Perhaps that longing is something I
inherited from my father. Is there such a thing as a spiritual DNA? Deep
connections do not come easily but at times when I let my feelings out of their
compartment, I long deeply for that.